Click Here to Read: Elsa First’s Response to presentation by Dr. Ravinder Barn “Inter-Racial Parenting : Negotiating Difference and Belonging” given at COWAP Conference on Identity Formation in Bi-Racial Families including Cross-Racial Adoption. Oct 27th 2007, New York Psychoanalytic, NY NY. (This is the text of the spoken talk . A FULLER VERSION IS IN PREPARATION FOR PUBLICATION.)